Living with Scleroderma

Reflections on the Messy Complexity of Chronicity

Touch

Touch Type

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As I was writing just now, I realized that I am typing with only my pinkies these days, with my thumbs handling the space bar. (Using an Apple keyboard makes this possible, because it requires only a very light touch.) Usually I also use my right ring finger, but it’s been out of commission for a few weeks due to another ulcer, which, of course, formed on a pressure point, as in where I touch the keys.

What’s so interesting about this is that I don’t actually notice, most of the time, how I’m typing. My hands have learned to adjust to various fingers being unavailable for so long that they “know” the distance between keys without my having to look (for the most part). Kinesthetic memory is a powerful sensory skill.

Many decades ago, when I could still play the violin, I could hear a piece of music and sense in my fingers how to play it—where each fingertip would land on the strings, which direction to ply the bow. I certainly can’t play Mendelssohn anymore, but sometimes I can still almost know, intuitively, how.

So, I guess I haven’t lost that skill. It’s just emerged in a different way. Pretty neat.

Our brains and bodies are quite amazing, even when they don’t work perfectly anymore.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

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Open Wider, Please

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So, on Monday I made another long drive for a not-so-short appointment, this time to my dentist for the next step in my latest tooth saga, measuring my mouth for the crown for my implant. While I’m grateful that there is a way to keep saving my teeth as I keep losing them to scleroderma-induced root resorption, the process is long, uncomfortable, and not covered by insurance, so it’s no fun and incredibly expensive.

This visit was to make an impression of my teeth, so that the crown can fit properly. I believe the last time I had this done, a few years ago, they were still using that icky goop in a metal tray that they stuck in my mouth (no easy feat). I had to bite down and hold for a few minutes to create a mold. The process always reminded me of my childhood orthodontist’s office, with its shelves of plaster dentures from all of his clients’ mouths, eerily grinning.

Now, however, they can make a digital image of your teeth with a probe. No goop. But the probe is not small and my mouth opening, due to scleroderma, is not big. And as one tech, and then another, did her best to scan my teeth, each had to stretch my lips and cheeks to get the full impression, a definitely-no-fun experience. Finally that first set of images was completed, and I was able to rest my mouth.

Then came my dentist, who had to remove the small metal screw-in cap from the implant and then screw in some kind of post that determined the angle of the new crown. But he was having trouble unscrewing the cap and screwing in the post, because his finger are large and my mouth opening is small. Again, no fun, and he was stressed because he knew I was uncomfortable and didn’t want to hurt me. Finally that stage was finished, and I rested my mouth again.

But the next step was to scan the post with the probe, and first one tech, and then the next, could not get the full image that was required, despite a lot of lip and cheek stretching. They were discussing the possibility of falling back to the goop mold (after all that?!) when my dentist’s partner, a women with small, steady hands, a great sense of humor, and a boatload of patience, came to the rescue. Turns out the post was turned the wrong way, so that’s why the image wasn’t registering. She deftly repositioned it, redid the scan, took out the post, and replaced the cap in a fraction of the time the whole procedure had taken up to this point. “You’re a trooper!” she said, at the end.

If memory serves, she had to come in as the closer last time around, too. Sigh.

Before I left, I set up a payment plan and my next appointment. I’ll have my new tooth before New Year’s, and it will be paid for by my birthday in April. Al and I could have traveled around the world with all the money I’ve had to spend on implants in the past decade-plus. Here’s hoping everything fits, and that I can avoid this whole mishegas for another few years, until the inevitable next tooth bites the dust.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

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What Happened to Your Hands?

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Recently, a young boy was studying my fingers. “Why do you have so many bandages?” he asked.

“I have problems with my hands,” I answered. For a pre-schooler, that seemed the appropriate explanation.

He looked concerned, or perhaps afraid. “You don’t have fingernails,” he said.

“No, I don’t,” I said. Not exactly true. I have a few left, but they certainly don’t look normal, more like moon crescents. He seemed perplexed, but then he got distracted and that was the end of our conversation.

A friend who overheard our chat checked to see how I took it. “Kids say what everyone else is thinking,” I said. “He’s just curious.”

It really doesn’t bother me anymore when people ask, after all these decades of living with odd-looking hands and way too many digital ulcers, especially since my hand surgery eight years ago that necessitated some partial finger amputations. Most people who know me don’t pay any attention to my hands. When a stranger (often a cashier or someone else I’m handing something to) asks, Oh, what happened to you? or clucks about my bandages, I just take it as a mix of natural inquisitiveness and compassion.

My standard answer is something like, “I have chronic ulcers.” I don’t bother to go into an explanation of scleroderma, because the occasion doesn’t call for a lengthy discussion, and I’d rather keep it simple. Sometimes the person will ask a follow-up, Does it hurt? To which I say, “Sometimes.”

I realize that such inquiries can be much more challenging for those with severely tightened skin. Before my skin relaxed somewhat on my face, hands, and forearms (a miracle, truly, as it was beginning to get uncomfortable to blink in the early years, and the skin on my hands was like leather), people who knew me casually would ask with concern whether I’d lost weight. They sensed something was different, but couldn’t figure out what.

I was very self-conscious during that first decade. When I began to see wrinkles in my forehead again after several years on penicillamine (a since-discredited treatment because research samples involved too few patients to prove a positive response, but I believe it saved my life), I was thrilled. But my hands were already deformed by then.

It wasn’t until I began writing this blog in January 2012 that I started to overcome all the embarrassment that I felt about my appearance. There really is so much more to living with a chronic, deforming disease like scleroderma than your looks or your diagnosis and treatments, although I don’t in any way mean to minimize the very real physical and emotional pain and stress of literally being trapped in your own skin, when scleroderma takes its most virulent form.

What I have learned in my nearly 45 years of managing this disease is that people take their cues from you. The more accepting you are of yourself, the more accepting they are of you. It’s a journey. I’m grateful to be sharing it with you.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

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Drips and Drops

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It’s been raining here for about the past 24 hours, much needed after a long dry spell. According to our official state website that tracks such matters, we are in a “significant drought.” You can tell that we haven’t had enough rain this summer because the fall foliage is muted. Trees need moisture to flame out.

So, I’m glad for the rain, even as it’s chilly and I’m putting on more sweaters. I turn on the heat in my office for the first time this fall and watch the rain dripping off the mountain laurel outside my office window. The drops cling to the leaves like glowing orbs until their surface tension breaks and they’re plucked by gravity’s pull.

My steroid eye drops arrived over the weekend. I think they are helping, though it’s too soon to be sure. I tried to follow the directions for application (pull your lower lid down to make a pouch for the drop, then hold it closed for a minute or so to be sure it doesn’t spill out of your eye), but I found it nearly impossible. My eyelids are (a) swollen and (b) not that flexible. So I just drop them in while looking up and do my best to not waste too much. My vision is still blurry, but my eyes don’t seem quite as sensitive. So far.

The gray sky helps. Bright light has been painful.

My German teacher tells me that the word for eye drops is Augentropfen. Somehow, this seems to capture the sensation of putting them in—the explosive pf feels like the fluid that always spills over.

I like it when words encapsulate sensations.

Like the word encapsulate. which sounds to my ear like a thought being snapped up.

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Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

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Out of Focus

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My eyes have been giving me a hard time, of late. Extremely dry from Sjögrens, they are not happy. No matter what kind of eye drops I use, they burn and itch. When I read, I see a shadow around the letters. My vision is often blurred, especially by day’s end. Bright sunlight is intolerable. My eyelids are swollen to the point of being unable to put in my scleral lenses as a possible source of relief.

So last week I wrote to my wonderful dry eye specialist and asked what to do. I guessed my eyes were inflamed or maybe infected. He shoehorned me into his Monday afternoon schedule, a good thing, because he was off to a conference for the rest of the week, and I don’t know how I would have lasted that long without a visit.

Dr. S is a professor at a local college with a program in optometry, and he is always up on the latest therapies for dry eyes. Just over a month ago, he switched me from Restasis, which is a standard eye drop for my condition, but which is irritating, to a newer drop called Cequa, which is less irritating and seems to last longer. He also found me the best price for my insurance coverage. (Among his many virtues, he loves a good fight with insurance companies.)

As is always the case at these visits, I was first assessed by an optometry student, then by Dr. S., who also loves to teach. Given the complexity of my case, with both scleroderma that makes it difficult to open my eyes wide and Sjögrens, I provide quite the teachable moment. Which is fine. I’m always glad to help new medical professionals learn about these diseases so that someone else may get better care in the future.

After a thorough exam with two types of dyes to determine how bad my corneal abrasions are, eye pressure check, and more, we came down to my first suspicion—for whatever reason, my eyes are inflamed, so any drops are irritating. Dr. S recommended a new, mild steroid eye drop to calm them down. Now it’s just a matter of finding out how much the drops cost.

As we were discussing that latter point, the student opined that it shouldn’t be too expensive. To which Dr. S noted that, while medications for glaucoma (which the student had been focused on in his previous clinical rounds) are affordable, insurance companies do not (yet) recognize dry eyes, even from Sjögrens, as a condition worth subsidizing. So what if it makes vision difficult?

And so, I await the insurance verdict and a decision on what I can afford. Honestly, it’s worth a lot to me. Here’s hoping the price is within reach.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

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