Living with Scleroderma

Reflections on the Messy Complexity of Chronicity

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Drips and Drops

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It’s been raining here for about the past 24 hours, much needed after a long dry spell. According to our official state website that tracks such matters, we are in a “significant drought.” You can tell that we haven’t had enough rain this summer because the fall foliage is muted. Trees need moisture to flame out.

So, I’m glad for the rain, even as it’s chilly and I’m putting on more sweaters. I turn on the heat in my office for the first time this fall and watch the rain dripping off the mountain laurel outside my office window. The drops cling to the leaves like glowing orbs until their surface tension breaks and they’re plucked by gravity’s pull.

My steroid eye drops arrived over the weekend. I think they are helping, though it’s too soon to be sure. I tried to follow the directions for application (pull your lower lid down to make a pouch for the drop, then hold it closed for a minute or so to be sure it doesn’t spill out of your eye), but I found it nearly impossible. My eyelids are (a) swollen and (b) not that flexible. So I just drop them in while looking up and do my best to not waste too much. My vision is still blurry, but my eyes don’t seem quite as sensitive. So far.

The gray sky helps. Bright light has been painful.

My German teacher tells me that the word for eye drops is Augentropfen. Somehow, this seems to capture the sensation of putting them in—the explosive pf feels like the fluid that always spills over.

I like it when words encapsulate sensations.

Like the word encapsulate. which sounds to my ear like a thought being snapped up.

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Out of Focus

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My eyes have been giving me a hard time, of late. Extremely dry from Sjögrens, they are not happy. No matter what kind of eye drops I use, they burn and itch. When I read, I see a shadow around the letters. My vision is often blurred, especially by day’s end. Bright sunlight is intolerable. My eyelids are swollen to the point of being unable to put in my scleral lenses as a possible source of relief.

So last week I wrote to my wonderful dry eye specialist and asked what to do. I guessed my eyes were inflamed or maybe infected. He shoehorned me into his Monday afternoon schedule, a good thing, because he was off to a conference for the rest of the week, and I don’t know how I would have lasted that long without a visit.

Dr. S is a professor at a local college with a program in optometry, and he is always up on the latest therapies for dry eyes. Just over a month ago, he switched me from Restasis, which is a standard eye drop for my condition, but which is irritating, to a newer drop called Cequa, which is less irritating and seems to last longer. He also found me the best price for my insurance coverage. (Among his many virtues, he loves a good fight with insurance companies.)

As is always the case at these visits, I was first assessed by an optometry student, then by Dr. S., who also loves to teach. Given the complexity of my case, with both scleroderma that makes it difficult to open my eyes wide and Sjögrens, I provide quite the teachable moment. Which is fine. I’m always glad to help new medical professionals learn about these diseases so that someone else may get better care in the future.

After a thorough exam with two types of dyes to determine how bad my corneal abrasions are, eye pressure check, and more, we came down to my first suspicion—for whatever reason, my eyes are inflamed, so any drops are irritating. Dr. S recommended a new, mild steroid eye drop to calm them down. Now it’s just a matter of finding out how much the drops cost.

As we were discussing that latter point, the student opined that it shouldn’t be too expensive. To which Dr. S noted that, while medications for glaucoma (which the student had been focused on in his previous clinical rounds) are affordable, insurance companies do not (yet) recognize dry eyes, even from Sjögrens, as a condition worth subsidizing. So what if it makes vision difficult?

And so, I await the insurance verdict and a decision on what I can afford. Honestly, it’s worth a lot to me. Here’s hoping the price is within reach.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

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Threading the Needle

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I finished sewing another dress this weekend, just in time for Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, which begins today. It’s customary to wear something new for the holiday. As per usual, however, I started making this dress, which I’ve been thinking about all summer, just as the weather was turning cooler. It’s a lightweight, very silky rayon knit, beautiful but tricky fabric (also per usual—I always seem to pick what’s hardest to handle). Not autumnal material.

By a stroke of good fortune, however, Tuesday here is supposed to be warm again, for one day. I’m writing on Monday afternoon, fingers crossed. And if it is actually cooler than expected, I bought a long-sleeved silk shirt and leggings to wear underneath. So, hopefully, this will all work out as planned.

In any case, I picked the fabric both for its floral print and drape. It’s very soft and wonderfully fluid. Which made it challenging to sew. And so, I had to hand baste some critical seams in place before stitching them with my sewing machine. This included tacking down the inner waistband facing and the very, very, very long hem (it’s a wrap dress).

Hand sewing is the best way to achieve accuracy in a garment, but it is extremely challenging for me at this point. Not only because my fingertips have resorbed significantly, but also because I have so many bandages on my fingers. Which makes it hard to feel what I’m doing.

Not only that, threading the needle is tricky because of my very dry eyes, due to Sjogrens. No matter what I do of late with various eye drops, I cannot clearly see something as small as the eye of a needle, especially of a fine needle for sewing rayon. It takes numerous tries, using a pair of tweezers to hold the tip of the thread and turning the needle this way and that to see the eye. Eventually I get it threaded, but not without uttering a string of choice words.

And inevitably, when I get to the end of a particular piece of thread, but not quite, I manage to pull the needle too far and lose the thread. Which means threading it again. Especially on a very, very, very long hem. Which lets loose another long string of choice words.

So why do I do this to myself? Sewing is supposed to be a fun, relaxing hobby, right? I guess I’m just stubborn. I refuse to give up this skill that I’ve honed since I was a teenager. The results are never perfect, but it always gives me a boost to wear something I’ve made well.

I’m really pleased with the dress, and even if I only get to wear it once until the weather warms up again next summer, it’s a good way to start the New Year—stubbornly refusing to relinquish my ability to make something beautiful, especially now.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

Tornado Warning

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On Saturday afternoon around 4:15, I was lying on our living room couch and reading (not light reading, literally and figuratively, an 850+ page history of the Thirty Years War, but that’s another story), when my cell phone alarm went off. Really loud: a National Weather Service warning of potential for a tornado in our vicinity for the next half-hour. TAKE SHELTER! it advised, with more details in all caps.

Now, it was already dark and pouring outside, and we’d experienced a bright flash and loud crack of thunder a few minutes earlier. A severe storms was definitely passing through. But tornado watches are rare in New England, let alone a tornado warning. (Years ago when I lived in Illinois, I never got used to all the watches and warnings, and tornadoes were my dream metaphors for anxiety, but all that ended when I moved back east.) Being the more cautious of the two of us, I checked with Al, who was immersed in another activity, to be sure he’d heard the alert. He shrugged and went back to what he was doing.

I went downstairs with my heavy book to read. Since our daughters moved away, our basement family room is really now a junk room for storage, but there’s still a couch and decent lighting. It’s musty and needs a good clean-up, one of my perpetual to-do’s that I mean to get to this winter (there, I’ve put it in writing). Part of Al’s old vibraphone was lying on the couch, so I rolled up the wooden tone bars, moved them to the side, then picked up the strip of metal resonator tubes, to do the same, lost my balance and fell. Fortunately, I fell on a rug (mostly), but I banged my knee on part of the vibraphone. Which was not fun.

There’s a small, high window in the room, and it was quite dark outside. I could hear the rain, but no thunder or lightening cracks. So I read and checked the time and read and finally went upstairs at 4:45. Al was still immersed. I got an ice pack out of the freezer for my knee and went back to my history book on the couch. I felt kind of silly, but so be it.

Until I learned, not long after, that a tornado had actually briefly touched down in a suburb not far from us at exactly 4:15. Known as a “spin-up” or “land spout” by meteorologists, it was relatively small and lasted only a few minutes. But the damage was significant. In that brief visit, it uprooted and destroyed numerous large trees, including some oaks, which are among the sturdiest trees in this part of the country.

Which just goes to show that you never know what’s just around the corner, and that it’s worth being cautious when the NWS sends you an all caps warning about approaching storms. Especially in this time of severe weather, I’d rather sit in our musty family room for a half-hour than risk a tree falling on our house. If I get my act together, the next time this happens, our old family room will be a much more pleasant space to wait it out.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

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A Great Way to Start the Day

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Labor Day is past, the school year has begun, and red-orange sugar maple leaves are drifting to the ground. Here in our Fair City, it is preliminary Election Day, when we have the option to narrow the field of candidates running for at-large seats on our City Council. Fourteen citizens have thrown their hats into the ring for six seats.

I doubt if many people will take advantage of the opportunity to vote. This isn’t a flashy election, with the high stakes of the upcoming Mid-Terms next year. But it’s important. Our city is in the midst of a development boom, with affordable housing options evaporating for renters. Roads need repair and repaving. Our public schools need attention. Climate change is affecting every aspect of our lives. State funding is tight, and federal funding, even tighter now. Several times over the past year, City Council meetings have been disrupted by raucous protests over international headlines. Whom we choose to guide our city through these tumultuous times matters.

So, yesterday, on Labor Day, when I took the day off to start a new sewing project, I first drove down to City Hall and deposited my mail-in ballot to the drop-box outside the back entrance. I would have mailed it, but I missed the deadline and wanted to be sure it was received by close of business today.

It took me a while to complete the ballot. I didn’t know a lot about some of the new candidates, so I read through a series of profiles on our local newspaper’s website. Honestly, it was impressive. I find it very moving, when so much seems so dark these days, that idealistic citizens still want to serve our city. The role of City Councilor is not easy. The issues are complex, people are demanding and often not forgiving of human foibles, and the hours are long, for a nominal salary. Everyone on the Council has a full-time job elsewhere.

Perhaps it would have been just as simple to vote in-person at our local polling place today. But I like the convenience of the mail-in ballot, to be able to vote on my own schedule. There is nothing complex or mysterious or fraudulent, as some claim, about the process. We use paper ballots, whether in person or mail-in. The only difference is how the ballot is collected.

Throughout election season here, yards are dotted with candidate signs. Already I’ve seen candidates standing at major traffic intersections, holding up posters and waving to passing cars. Our mailbox has been stuffed with oversized postcards, touting candidate qualifications. We’ve answered the doorbell several times to people canvassing for their person. It’s a local tradition, this old-fashioned, down-to-earth effort to gain name-recognition in the build-up to November 4.

On my way downtown, traffic was light. Street meters on Labor Day were free. The whole round trip, including parking and walking to the drop-box and back to my car, took no more than 20 minutes. And it gave me a boost—an excellent way to start the day.

Whenever I vote, whether in a local run-off or a national election, I always feel better afterwards. In our democracy, voting is both a right and a privilege that I never want to squander. Every vote counts, especially at the local level. If you have the option to participate in your own community today, please do.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.