Living with Scleroderma

Reflections on the Messy Complexity of Chronicity

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Improv

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I need to keep this short today, because my left ring finger is very sensitive, and it’s my main finger for typing with that hand. I’ve been losing the nail, and the skin beneath it is quite irritated. So I am typing with my usual three fingers on my right hand (thumb, ring and pinky) and using a rubber-tipped stylus to press keys with my left. Normally I use just my thumb and ring finger on the left.

This is slow going, sort of, because I can’t look at the screen as I type. But it’s better than nothing.

Over the years, I’ve learned to type seamlessly with only five fingers. I don’t think about it at all, until something like this happens. I hate voice-activated software, because it slows down my thought process and requires a lot of corrections—or, at least, it used to the last time I tried it, which was about seven years ago.

So, for now, I’ll keep up with this hunt-and-peck method until my finger heals up. Maybe I’ll even learn to type this way without looking. And who knows, maybe I’ll find an even better solution for the next, inevitable time ulcers get in the way of writing.

When things fall apart, creative opportunities abound.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

Inner Artist

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When I was growing up, my favorite thing to do in the whole world was drawing. Give me a pencil and a pad of paper, and I was in heaven. One year for my birthday, my parents gave me a drawing kit by Jon Gnagy, whose popular 1960’s Learn to Draw show was must-see TV for me. Along with an instructional book that taught you to analyze objects in terms of spheres, cones, and pyramids, the box contained drawing pencils and paper, a soft eraser, a blending stick, and charcoal. I spent hours in my room, sitting on the floor, working through all the exercises.

As I got older, my favorite drawing medium became pen and ink. But sepia conté crayons, colored pencils, and pastels were also high on the list. Every summer, I would bring a drawing pad and implements on our family vacations to Cape Cod and sketch at the beach. I took summer art classes as a preteen and a drawing class in college, watercolor and drawing classes in my twenties, and since then, occasional classes at our wonderful art museum. For our young daughters, I would draw illustrations and, in a reprise of childhood, would bring my pencils and paper to the beach for our Block Island vacations.

In recent years, however, I have hardly drawn at all. Some of it has to do with damage to my hands from scleroderma. In fact, that’s probably the main reason. Not that I can’t still draw, but when I have a lot of ulcers, it’s just harder to hold a pencil for any length of time. Or so I tell myself. I use triangular rubber grips on my drawing pencils to ease the pressure, and that definitely helps. But something has been holding me back—most likely, just reluctance to push my hands too far.

Even so, I’ve had a New Year’s resolution for more than a year to get back to drawing, which I managed to do only twice in 2024. Each time, once sketching my African violet, and once on Block Island last June sketching Al at the beach, gave me great pleasure. But I still kept putting it off.

On Sunday, I decided to try again—this despite having five bandaged fingers right now. I needed to do something joyful and rejuvenating after a week of such dark news. I pulled out my colored pencils and my mostly empty drawing notebook, set up a vase of roses on a low stool, so I could look down into the blossoms, and drew. It was wonderful. I sank right back into that peaceful, meditative space of observation and interpretation. No matter the ulcers, I could still control the pencils as well as ever. When I finished, I felt relaxed and happy and in tune with my inner, non-verbal artist.

She’s been clamoring for attention. She deserves more.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

That Time of Year

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It’s darker and colder, and winter is definitely on its way here in New England. Most of the leaves have fallen, and the city has swept the streets, so we no longer drive amidst canyons of leaf piles. Halloween witches and Thanksgiving turkeys have given way to Christmas lights and inflatable snowmen.

My fingers are not happy. As the temperature drops and the air gets drier, my skin becomes more fragile and ulcers appear. Right now, there are five: one on my left thumb, a couple on my right thumb, one on the tip of my right index finger, and one on the tip of my right ring finger. I am, as you’ve undoubtedly surmised, right-handed.

The thumb ulcers are nothing new. I have these perpetually, year-round. In fact, I can’t recall when I last was able to go without bandages on either thumb, mainly due to calcinosis lurking beneath the surface. The index finger ulcer is new, however, due to another calcium deposit. It is healing, slowly. The ring finger ulcer is more like a thin opening in the skin surface due to dryness. It is harder to heal, maybe because the skin is just very delicate.

So, I clean and bandage them twice a day and am very careful to keep them free of infections. It’s such an ingrained routine at this point that I don’t think much about it—except that I’m going through boxes of bandages at a faster rate than normal. For most of the summer and fall, I just had my thumbs to deal with.

There is some judgment involved, however. At what point do I leave off the bandage at night and allow my finger to heal on its own? It’s a real balancing act. If I forgo the night bandage too soon, the ulcer can get too dry and uncomfortable and wake me up. But if I rely on bandaging too long, then the ulcer may take even longer to heal and possibly get larger. I recently weaned an ulcer on my left index finger successfully. I’m working on the right ring finger this week.

I also need to be careful not to overuse my hands. I was reminded of this over the holiday weekend, when I was immersed in a sewing project that required some hand sewing—a frustratingly major challenge, given my resorbed fingertips and all the bandages. The result was an enlarged ulcer on my right thumb. Aargh. At least the project came out well.

Always an adjustment, heading into winter, no matter how many years I’ve lived with scleroderma. So it goes.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

Interpolation

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My body is trying to tell me something. My shoulders are in knots. My fingers have developed more ulcers. I’m having trouble concentrating—or, rather, getting myself to the point of concentrating.

This morning, I woke from a dream that I couldn’t find a file in my computer, because the search function was screwed up. What was the file? Some essay I’d written that was titled “Megalomaniacs.” Which, as I write that word, includes an interesting interpolation of letters, which, if you’re following American politics, is pretty obvious.

Before I sat down at my computer to write this post on Monday afternoon, I took my walk around the neighborhood. This is always my immediate remedy for tension. The air was cool but pleasant. Mounds of brown leaves lined the streets, some with squashed pumpkins plopped on top. Most of the maples were bare, though a few pale golden leaves still clung to branches, their tint warmed by the honeyed glow of a sinking sun. An occasional car hummed by. Much of the way, I heard only the shuffle and crunch of leaves beneath my feet. No leaf blowers, thank goodness.

Most of my neighbors’ Halloween decorations had come down, but a few front steps still displayed harvest gourds. Other neighbors had been tidying their yards for winter. One who notably had choked a drive and detached garage with all kinds of stuff that only a hoarder could love had reduced their stash to just one small pile. Another had ripped ugly beige aluminum siding off much of their home to reveal moss green shingles. Even though they’re in need of replacement, the house already has a lot more character.

I passed other women, out for a stroll. We smiled and nodded to one another. Everything seemed normal, which was reassuring.

By the time I got back home, my shoulders had loosened a bit. I was breathing more deeply, always a plus. I’ve been carefully tending my new ulcers, and I was able to walk with my hands out of my pockets for part of my route, without discomfort from the cool air. My head was clearer.

Still, one encounter lingered—a brief chat with a neighbor who was sitting on her front lawn with her American flag, trying to figure out how to display it. “It just won’t hang right,” she said.

Indeed.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

Hand-off

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I’ve been dropping things lately. This is largely due to calcinosis in my thumbs that makes it harder to hold on. My dexterity waxes and wanes, depending on how a particular piece of calcium is working its way out through the skin, and currently some shards are on the move.

And so, Sunday night, when I tried to lift a large pot of cooked pasta over to the kitchen sink to strain out the water, you guessed it, the pot slipped and I splashed hot pasta water all over the kitchen floor. Thankfully, not the cooked pasta! And I managed to move out of the way so I didn’t get burned.

But I was really annoyed with myself. Al was home, fortunately, and calmly cleaned up all the water on the floor with old newspapers and towels, while I groused.

Finally I calmed down. And the meal turned out well.

I don’t usually get so frustrated with my hands. I try to take very good care of them and respect their limitations.

Which, of course, are my limitations. It’s a strange aspect of this disease, that my hands can look and feel so alien and disfunctional, but they remain a part of me. Even after four-plus decades living with scleroderma, I sometimes still find this surprising. I see my hands all the time, but there are moments when I’ll catch their reflection framed in a mirror and am shocked at how bizarre they look.

Then I remind myself that they are me, that regardless of how strange my hands appear, I’m still able to do as much as I do. And to be grateful for that. And to forgive myself for getting frustrated. It just is.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.