Living with Scleroderma

Reflections on the Messy Complexity of Chronicity

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Rolling Thunder

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I’m writing on Sunday night as a bank of thunderstorms rolls overhead. Lightening flashes and flickers, and the thunder rumbles deeply. We need the rain. It’s been hot and dry and lawns are parched. I’m thinking of my mother, who used to tell me when I was afraid of thunder that it was just the sound of giants bowling in the sky. She drew upon Washington Irving’s tale of Rip Van Winkle. We lived in the Hudson River Valley, not far from Irving’s home and a few hours’ drive from the Catskills, where the story takes place.

Van Winkle, an idler who seeks to escape his wife’s demands, wanders from his town into the mountains and comes across men dressed in antique Dutch clothing, who are playing nine-pins. He shares drinks and falls asleep, only to awaken twenty years later, after the American Revolution has been won. Still believing he is a loyal subject of King George III, he learns that most of his friends died for the American cause. The bowlers are rumored to be ghosts of Henry Hudson’s crew. His wife is dead. His son is grown. His daughter takes him in.

What would one discover, if she fell asleep today, only to awaken decades from now? I hope a revolutionary change as great as the one Van Winkle encountered—a more just world, a true democracy here at home, where all individuals are equally respected and safe within its borders. I hope she would find a planet that has come together to stop global warming and begun to reverse the devastation it has wrought. I hope, a time when science is taken seriously and the COVID-19 pandemic is a hard lesson learned and never repeated.

That’s what I hope. But we can’t assume, much as it would be nice to dream it away, that this tumultuous period will just work itself out on its own. It’s up to each of us to make it happen.

There are days when this seems overwhelming and impossible. Then I listen to the thunder and watch the lightening and think that as long as humans have walked the earth, we have survived storms. The creative spirit that spins thunderstorms into a game of nine-pins echoing in the mountains can envision a better world and find the way to it. We just need to stay awake.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

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Unnecessary Procedures

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For well over a year, I’ve had a piece of grey calcium protruding from the pad of my right thumb. As I wrote back in February, I finally saw my hand surgeon and worked out a plan for him to remove it—the challenge being that it’s only the tip of a long chain of calcium that runs down the entire thumb. It gets in the way, hurts when I bump it, and generally makes me drop things.

Surgery was originally scheduled for this spring, but, of course, the pandemic put that plan on hold. I got a call at the end of May, as the hand surgeon’s office began to reopen, to see if I wanted to reschedule for June, but I declined. It just felt too soon—a good thing, as it turned out, because I got an infection in the left thumb that has taken weeks to clear, and I know he wouldn’t have operated under that circumstance, even if the opposite thumb was the problem.

The situation in the past few weeks has gotten really uncomfortable. With the clearing infection on the left and protruding calcium on the right, I was having greater and greater difficulty doing basic tasks. I had a note in my calendar to call the hand surgeon’s office this week and was now ready to get on his schedule as soon as possible.

Then, Sunday night, as I was changing clothes to get ready for bed, I felt a sharp twinge in my right thumb. Then I noticed some blood on my nightclothes. Sure enough, that nasty chunk of calcium had finally, finally, broken off of its own accord. It left a hole in my thumb, about an eighth of an inch deep. The tip of the rest of the calcium chain was barely visible and far enough beneath the surface to remain inoffensive, for now.

I was thrilled. No more need for surgery, no more risk of exposure in a medical setting to infections or Corona, regardless of precautions. From long experience, I knew the hole would quickly close up on its own. So I rinsed it with peroxide, bandaged it with antibacterial ointment, and went to bed.

By Monday morning, it was already half healed. Warm weather certainly helps. Best of all, I can finally use my right thumb again.

This is not to say that, if I’d had no relief, I wouldn’t have gone ahead with the procedure. But our bodies do have a way of healing themselves. I kept hoping this would happen on its own, which is why I took so long to see my hand surgeon in the first place. As if to drive the point home, in Monday morning’s New York Times was this article about how people who have had elective procedures postponed during the pandemic are actually staying healthier than expected.

Complex trade-offs. Grateful that the scale of options swung in favor of non-invasive, this time.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

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Dreamscapes

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I am trying to remember what I dreamt this morning. I used to be able to recall my dreams, but my memory doesn’t work the same anymore. Now I’m often left with only the ghost of emotions stirred in my sleep. All I can remember of this morning is waking and drifting and waking again, trying to shake off the dream and falling back into it, literally trying to shake myself awake. This took nearly an hour, from the time my alarm went off to the time I finally opened my eyes to reassuring sunlight.

The times we live in are not conducive to restful sleep. Although I have been sleeping through most nights, thank goodness, since the pandemic flooded the world, I often wake in a haze of angst. I’ll know the images of my dreams for a few seconds, maybe, then lose them in the light, in the prayers I recite upon waking, in the struggle to recall which day this is. Perhaps I should start writing them down when I wake, a practice I’ve used in the past to decipher myself.

Of course, my angst’s source is no mystery. Corona haunts us all. Deadly racism, the nightmare of too many fellow Americans of color, now demands attention from the rest of us, sleepwalking far too long. Our country is riven by rumors, conspiracies, distrust of difference. Our planet is suffocating. A free and fair election, my one hope for healing our democracy and saving our world, is in danger of disruption by those who place love of power over love of country.

Perhaps I forget my dreams these days because my conscious mind is protecting me. Why rehash in the day what I’ve already processed in the night? But my writer’s insistent curiosity wants to know: What is going on? What metaphor is my brain conjuring? What am I trying to tell myself?

I once heard an interview with the psychologist Frederick “Fritz” Perls, the founder of Gestalt therapy. He described each element of a dream as an aspect of the self. To understand it, he said, you query the element, you act out the elements in the dream. In so doing, the dreamer discovers her own interpetation. The answers can be surprisingly revelatory.

Unraveled, the dream can also become banal, the angst, simply a restatement of the known. Just as a fear that is faced is often defused, so, too, with dreams.

So, what am I trying to tell myself? In her book, The Third Reich of Dreams: The nightmares of a nation, 1933-1939, author Charlotte Beradt wrote of the dreams she collected from fellow Germans as the Nazis consolidated power:

Set against a background of disintegrating values and an environment whose very fabric was becoming warped, these dreams are permeated by a reality whose quality is unreal—a combination of thought and conjecture in which rational details are brought into fantastic juxtapositions and thereby made more, rather than less, coherent; where ambiguities appear in a context that nonetheless remains explicable, and latent as well as unknown and menacing forces are all made a part of everyday life.

One would think I’d be keeping a journal of this extraordinary period of history, when so much is at stake. Writing is intrinsic to my soul. But I haven’t been able to bring myself to do so. I don’t know why. Perhaps recording my dreams is the place to start.

This post was inspired by a collection of “20 Dreams for 2020” by the New York Times (June 12, 2020).

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

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To Stay or Go

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It’s been hard to concentrate. Peaceful protests across the country and around the world that began with the murder of George Floyd and have swelled to encompass deeper and broader issues of racial injustice throughout our society demand attention and engagement. And here I sit, because of Covid, wanting to join in but knowing I can’t afford the risks.

I’ve joined several public protests in the past three-and-a-half years—the first Women’s March; several demonstrations protesting treatment of immigrants, including one in Washington, D.C., in Lafayette Park across from the White House; a local march for gun safety. That’s more protests than I ever did when I was growing up in the sixties, because our parents wouldn’t let me and my sister attend anti-Vietnam War and civil rights demonstrations out of fear for our safety. Now I’m 66 years old, older than they were then, during one of the seminal moments in our nation’s history, and I’m stuck at home.

I talked this over with my cardiologist Monday morning, on a previously scheduled phone appointment. He was quite clear that I need to avoid crowds due to my pulmonary risks with scleroderma and the nature of COVID-19. This advice reinforced my earlier conclusions. So I will stay put.

But my heart is with the peaceful demonstrators. And so I have written to our congresspeople, made donations, talked with family and friends across the political spectrum. I read and follow many news sources to stay informed and aware of a range of views. I listen to various podcasts to gain deeper insights and understanding of the profound injustices at stake. Most of all, I hope to find a way to help from home to support free and fair elections—the essential issue this November.

Each of us has to determine how to respond to this moment. It is my prayer that we will find our way to greater empathy for all, a more compassionate and just society, true public safety, and a willingness to really listen to each other in order to get there.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

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The Long Road Ahead

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There is so much anguish across America. In my city, on Sunday, the protest about the death of George Floyd in Minneapolis at the hands of police was peaceful, righteous, and culminated in a handshake between the local leader of Black Lives Matter and the white police captain. Together, they led a march from downtown police headquarters back to City Hall, where the demonstration had started.

The hard work remains before us. Systemic racism in our country is on stark display. Even before the turmoil of this past week rivited the nation’s attention (once again) on racial injustice, the pandemic exposed mounting evidence that people of color in this country are at greater risk of life-threatening consequences of COVID-19 than whites. But those risks of poorer health outcomes are not limited to Corona. Our health care system must address racial disparities in access and treatment that tip the scales against people of color.

In a comprehensive 2018 report by Martha Hostetter and Sarah Klein of The Commonwealth Fund, “In Focus: Reducing Racial Disparities in Health Care by Confronting Racism,” the authors state, “A black woman is 22% more likely to die from heart disease than a white woman, 71% more likely to perish from cervical cancer, and 243% more likely to die from pregnancy- or childbirth-related causes.”

The reasons for these discrepancies go far beyond income disparities and associated risks. As the report explains, at the core of racial disparities in health are not only lack of access to quality health care but also lack of equitable treatment—and the long-term impact of stress.

Referring to the data cited above, the report states:

These findings have led some health care researchers to suggest that the experience of being a black woman in America is, itself, a risk factor—and that attention must be paid both to black women’s level of stress throughout their lives and how they are treated by health care professionals. ‘There’s often an assumption in the medical world that racial disparities are due to something genetic, when in fact it might be racism,’ says Neel Shah, M.D., assistant professor of obstetrics, gynecology, and reproductive biology at Harvard Medical School. ‘We’re taught that racism is evil so it’s hard to recognize that in ourselves. But the studies suggest, for example, that we believe black women less when they express symptoms, and we tend to undervalue their pain.’

Poorer health outcomes for people of color are not limited to women. According to the Centers for Disease Control, “African American men suffer disproportionately from high blood pressure, a known risk factor for heart disease and stroke.” I’m summarizing here for the sake of brevity, not to diminish the significance of these statements. This is but the tip of a massive iceberg of the chronic health impact of living in a society where skin color remains a major determinant of personal safety and well-being.

Anyone who lives with an autoimmune disease knows that stress triggers all sorts of unwanted health issues. Chronic stress leads to chronic disease. Our country has a long way to go to address the many racial injustices that are hard-wired into our society. Acknowledging and addressing the cost of racism in our health care system is an essential place to start.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com. Please view Privacy Policy here.

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