Living with Scleroderma

Reflections on the Messy Complexity of Chronicity

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Tipping Point

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I got sick last week—not horrible, serious, life-threatening, needing-hospitalization sick. Just plain old rotten cold virus sick. But it was definitely not fun.

It started as swelling in my throat and chills on Monday, moved into achey joints by Tuesday, evolved into congestion on Wednesday, and by Thursday I was coughing and battling a very runny, stuffy nose. Lousy nights with poor sleep. Mornings hacking my guts out. On Friday, I forced myself out of the house to do a few important errands (like finally getting the snow tires on my car before the snow arrived Sunday night) and then struggled to work at my desk for the rest of the afternoon.

Now, none of this is out of the ordinary for a cold. It’s just that I feel it worse than I used to, mainly because my scleroderma exacerbates all the symptoms. Chills are really chilly. At one point early on, my hands were so numb I couldn’t pick up anything, and the only remedy was a hot shower. Aches are really achey. My left arm felt like I’d just had a tetanus shot.

Figuring out what to do about this is always a challenge, because decongestants can set off my Raynaud’s, too, and make my nose freeze. So I often rely on spray decongestant, but that has a boomerang effect if I overuse it, and makes the swelling worse.

So, feeling pretty desperate on Friday to breathe and relieve the muscle aches from too much coughing, I decided to try an over-the-counter liquid cold remedy. To my amazement, it actually worked without making me numb. Thank goodness! That and some adhesive strips to keep my very narrow nasal passages open, plus limited use of nasal spray, enabled me to get some sleep Friday night.

On Saturday, I stayed home to get more rest. Ironically, while reading a New Yorker article about a new treatment for insomnia, I passed out on the couch for another four hours. (Really, the article was interesting!)

When I woke up, miracle of miracles—I felt like myself again. It was as if that extra rest enabled all the working parts of my immune system to finally get the combination and overcome the virus that had been plaguing me for a week. I’m sure it actually took six days of microscopic activity to reach the tipping point from sick to well, but given how poorly I’d felt just 24 hours earlier, it sure felt like the extra sleep was the golden key.

A few days later, I’m still hoarse, and my energy is not 100 percent, yet. But I’m close, thank goodness. I’ll be even more vigilant using anti-bacterial gel every time I touch a debit card keypad and signing credit card slips with my own pen during cold and flu season. At least, that will give me the illusion of some control—and maybe some real protection against getting sick again, soon.

Meanwhile, it’s great to breathe again.

Image Credit: Illustration from Johann Remmelin, Pinax Microcosmographicus, (Amsterdam: Ex typographia Pauli Matthiae . . .; Voor Justus Danckersz, 1667); U.S. Library of Medicine, NIH; courtesy www.publicdomainreview.org.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com.

Milestone

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It’s maybe seven years ago, February, midday. The pea-soup-green classroom, a science lab of some sort, is packed with second year medical students. They fill every seat behind the rows of black benches and crowd onto window ledges in the back.

I sit before them on a metal stool, dressed in my favorite red wool pencil skirt, a black and beige tweed jacket, black cashmere sweater and rainbow scarf, stockings, black pumps. I want to look my best, not like a suffering patient with scleroderma.

I have come here, to Boston Medical School, to help would-be physicians learn about this rare and complicated disease, at the request of my rheumatologist’s research fellow. I’ve helped out several years in a row, so I know the drill: The fellow asks questions and I describe my symptoms. Then the students have to figure out which auto-immune disease I’m describing—rheumatoid arthritis, lupus or scleroderma.

I summarize the disease’s onset—fatigue, puffy fingers, fleeting joint pain in my late ‘20s; pleurisy, thickened skin that migrated from my fingers to the backs of my hands halfway up my forearms in my early ‘30s, facial skin tightening that made it uncomfortable to blink, problems swallowing. I tick off more details. Severe Raynaud’s. Calcium deposits, digital ulcers and infections. Friction rubs in my wrists. A miscarriage at 6 weeks. Pre-eclampsia and premature birth of my younger daughter.

The skin tightening, of course, is the giveaway, and several suggest the correct diagnosis of scleroderma—to be specific, limited systemic sclerosis, explains the fellow. Then it’s time for the med students to ask their own questions.

I am always surprised by how tentative they are. I’m one of the first real patients they have met in their medical training, and they stick to the technical details, nothing really personal. Do I get short of breath when I go up stairs? (Sometimes.) What triggers numbness in my hands? (Cold weather, but also a change in relative temperature, like going from 80 degrees outside to 72 degrees inside with air conditioning.) Have I experienced any skin changes on my torso? (No. That’s a sign of diffuse systemic sclerosis, which tends to be much more severe. My skin has actually loosened somewhat with time, thanks to medications, excellent health care and good luck.)

Our session flies by. At the end, I let the students feel the backs of my hands. Their fingers flutter over my skin like butterflies. They are most appreciative. I leave with a sense of accomplishment, that scleroderma will no longer be just another diagnosis to memorize from their textbooks, but something tangible. Maybe, just maybe, after they’ve completed their training, one of these young physicians will be able to diagnose this disease early on and save her patient at least some irreversible harm.

I am also exhausted. There is something about sitting in front of that group, good as it is to teach, that makes me feel like a bug under a microscope. The discussion among the students and the fellow, as they explore my symptoms, is both theoretical and specific. I am reminded of all the scary things that could go wrong—kidney failure, interstitial lung disease, pulmonary hypertension, GI problems, heart issues, on and on.

I understand this discussion—it’s a necessary piece of the students’ medical education. But it depresses and angers me, too. I am not a litany of symptoms and would-be symptoms. I’m a whole woman who has been living with this disease for far too long.

That’s why I dress up. I want to make it clear to the students that I am much more than my scleroderma. Yes, it affects every aspect of my life. But it does not define me.

This is my 100th blog post. Though I haven’t taught second year med students about scleroderma in a long time, I have chosen to share my life with this disease in the blogosphere for some of the same reasons. I want to educate—about not only what it means to live with scleroderma, but also what it means to live with chronic illness.

The more I have written over nearly two years, the more I find myself wanting to share what I’m learning about living fully. We are a society obsessed with categorizing, labeling, one-upping. Health, wealth and beauty guarantee high social status. Those qualities are compromised by chronic disease, especially scleroderma.

The older I get, the longer I beat the odds on this disease, the less I care about those status markers. What I value is my ability to make the most of each God-given day, to nurture loving relationships, to put my talents to good use. And that’s what I’ll be writing about more in the weeks and months ahead.

To all of you who have subscribed to this blog since Post #1 and stayed with me, my profound thanks for your support and continuing enthusiasm. To those who have joined along the way, I’m so glad you’re here.

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Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com.

Snapshots

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Monday, Penn Station, 6:33 p.m. I’m standing with a few hundred other people, staring at the Amtrak departure board, hoping that the Northeast Regional is leaving on schedule. Alas, it is not. The encouraging ON TIME message for Penn Stationour 6:43 departure shifts to 20 MINUTES LATE. Then 35 MINUTES LATE. But as the red digital clock display clicks past that deadline, no sign of our train.

I stare at the board, survey the cavernous waiting room, checking to see if I can figure out where a hoard of people are streaming out of one of the gates, indicating our train’s arrival. I listen to classical music—right now, Erik Satie— piping through the PA system, alternating with NYC and Jersey accents announcing all the other trains that are leaving on time, interspersed with a ubiquitous, calming woman’s voice telling us to watch for bags left unattended and other suspicious behavior. “See something, say something,” she melodiously cautions.

Travel is exhausting. I am wrapping up two days of business meetings in metro-New York—much of it devoted to the fall Board of Trustees meeting of The Good People Fund, a wonderful Jewish philanthropy, and a late Monday afternoon meeting with some of my favorite clients, who are based in Manhattan. I enjoy seeing all of these people, learning from them, feeling like I’m making an important contribution as a volunteer and through my consulting practice.

Rubin MuseumBut I am tired. Very tired. Travel requires much vigilance. I have been extra-careful of my bandaged ulcers, wary of getting an infection. Over and over, I’ve cleansed my hands and bandages with anti-bacterial hand gel, just to be safe.

I’ve packed my overnight, rolling suitcase (a great gift from my sister for my birthday last spring) as sparingly as possible. But still, it is heavy to schlep up and down stairs when there is no escalator or ramp, and my right wrist is tired from pulling it around Midtown. I’ve worn my favorite, most comfortable shoes. But my feet are wearing out.

And I’ve made many strategic trips to the bathroom. I really, really don’t want to get stuck in the subway or walking long city blocks, suddenly needing to go.

Chess Players NYCI’ve tried to balance all of these logistics, all the physical strain of travel, all the concentration and participation in hours of meetings, with some moments of pure pleasure. If I push too hard without pausing, I feel spacey and sometimes even woozy. This is incredibly frustrating. But my body just has limits. And there is wisdom in honoring that.

So this trip, I squeezed in a brief tour of the Rubin Museum of Art, a little gem on West 17th Street that contains stunning art of the Himalayas and surrounding regions. As I strolled through the galleries, serene Buddhas offered a moment of peaceful reflection, and my breathing eased.

Snapping photos on my iPhone between appointments also provided a good way to stop, slow down and pay attention to local color—chess players in Union Square and a farmer’s market, the slice-of-pie silhouette of the Flatiron Building and my beloved, iconic Empire State Building.

I got so immersed in taking photos, in fact, walking uptown toward Penn Station, that I arrived with only 15 minutes to make one more pit stop and pick up a sandwich and drink for supper on the train, before boarding. Or so I thought.

Empire State BuildingStanding here, watching, waiting. It’s nearly 7:30 p.m. before the voice on the loud speaker announces that the Northeast Regional is leaving on Track 8W. I hustle with my rolling bag to the gate. Settling into my seat in the Quiet Car (no cell phones or loud conversations—would someone please tell the young lady a few seats back to read the sign?), I’m relieved to finally be on my way home

As our train emerges from the Penn Station tunnels, I pause from the follow-up email I’m writing to savor the view—the New York City skyline, sparkling like diamonds and rubies against the black night. My hands feel fine.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com.

Surfacing

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At the inside crease in the first joint of my right middle finger, a charcoal gray chip of calcium is working its way to the surface. This has been going on for months. But now the tip of the chip is visible, and if I try to budge it, the sharp edges pinch.

So I need to wait it out. Kind of like a tiny submarine that isn’t quite ready to emerge. If only it contained miniaturized scientists, à la Fantastic Voyage, on a mission to repair my immune system.

I’ve discovered over decades of managing calcinosis that it’s better to let nature take its course than try to pry these odd calcium stones from my fingers. For one thing, I can’t really grasp a pair of tweezers tightly enough to dig them out. For another, it really hurts to do this. And disturbing the skin increases the risk of infection. So I use a combination of Aquafor and antibiotic ointments, dressings and bandages to soak them out, gradually.

Most of the time, this works. Once, several years ago, I had to have a clump of calcium surgically removed from my left thumb because it was too painful and wouldn’t come out on its own. Turned out it was attached to bone. But that’s been the exception.

Patience. It takes a lot of patience to let your body heal itself. For scleroderma, there are no quick fixes or easy cures. And there are many aspects of this disease that won’t heal unaided, if at all.

But one of the things that continually amazes me is how my skin, abnormal as it is, still knows how to heal itself. It just has a much longer timetable than normal.

Many of my finger ulcers take months to heal; some have taken years. Some of them form because of hidden calcium deposits that begin to surface; others, at pressure points. And yet, they do eventually heal. Sometimes the skin grows back thicker and sometimes it retains flexibility. The ulcers may reopen, but at least for a while I’ll get a respite.

This week, I was surprised and very pleased to realize that two intransigent ulcers finally closed up—in fall, of all seasons. So I’m down to three bandaged fingers from five. This is a major improvement.

Whenever a piece of calcium finally pops out, I’ll roll it around between my fingertips, just to explore it. How does my body make these strange, pointy crystals? Some can be as large as an eighth of an inch in diameter and leave a small crater in my finger.

But once I’ve cleaned out the hole with peroxide and dabbed on antibacterial ointment and clean dressing, within 24 hours, my skin has begun to repair itself and filled in. It’s really quite remarkable. For all the strangeness of this disease, my skin cells still can repair some of the damage. This is comforting.

Of course, nature can use a bit of help. I take medications to improve my skin circulation, which is critical to healing. I’m vigilant and meticulous about skin care to minimize risk of infection. I change my bandages every morning and use ointment, moisturizer and white cotton gloves at night to aide the healing process.

I also try to be mindful of how I move my hands and grasp things so I don’t bang myself. I take extra precautions, like wearing cotton work gloves when cleaning or moving cumbersome objects, to protect my bandages and skin. And I dress carefully, often in layers, to keep my hands warm.

All of this takes patience, too. After 30-plus years of living with scleroderma, I’ve adapted to the rhythm of my body’s long healing process. Some days, I’m far less patient and rant. But as long as I’m not in any significant pain, I’m able to ride out the frustration and regain my inner balance.

Today, checking the calcium chip’s long journey outward, I’m just glad it’s located in a spot that’s mostly out of the way. Maybe in a month or so, it will slip free and my skin will heal over, once again. Until the next time.

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Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com.

Under Construction

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For more than a year, I’ve been working on perfecting a pants pattern. The goal is to create a properly fitted master pattern that I can sew in different fabric any time I need a new pair of pants—no more trying them on in stores, which I hate doing because it’s so difficult to find a pair that fits properly, is made of good quality fabric and is affordable.

I do some fitting and sewing, then I stop for months, then I pick up the project again and work on it some more, then put it aside once again. I made one pair of pants from the pattern that didn’t fit quite right, went to a master seamstress for help refitting the pattern, got some more fabric to try it again, cut out all the pieces, then sat on the project for another stretch.

Here’s the reason I keep stopping and starting and dragging this out: My hands can’t sew the way I used to, and I’m afraid of messing up, so I avoid it.

I discovered sewing when I was about five years old. Someone, perhaps my mother, gave my sister and me matching sewing boxes; hers was white with purple trim and mine, white with blue. Each held a packet of needles, spools of different colored thread, a red tomato-shaped pin cushion, some pins and a pair of scissors.

I was in heaven. I began hand-sewing clothes for my Girl Scout Brownie doll, whose name was Shirley, out of old fabric scraps. Her fanciest outfit was an orange corduroy coat with uneven sleeves and a white button. Shirley didn’t seem to mind the amateur workmanship, though I was frustrated that the coat didn’t come out as I’d planned. But I kept on sewing.

As a teen, I learned to sew my own clothes by machine with guidance from a friend’s mother. My first effort was a robin’s-egg-blue jumper with a scoop neck and white braid trim. It had a 22-inch zipper in the back, which I tried to insert unsuccessfully seven times, after which my friend’s mother did it for me. This outfit I wore with a yellow print store-bought blouse at my junior high Girl Scout troop’s fashion show. A few years later, I sewed my senior prom dress out of a black rayon print and inserted a hand-picked zipper.

With practice, a lot of mistakes and some successes, I got better at sewing technique. When Al and I married, I wore a white satin and lace gown that I made myself. I hand-stitched nine yards of lace trim onto white tulle for the veil. When I finished, my fingers were very swollen. A few weeks later, I learned I might have scleroderma.

Though my hands continued to deteriorate, I was determined to keep sewing and made many outfits for my two daughters when they were young. But I have not sewn for myself nearly as much as I would have liked in the years since.

For one thing, I have a lot of fingertip ulcers swathed in cloth bandages, which makes it hard to feel the fabric and manipulate it. Even with a threading tool, I have trouble inserting thread into a needle. Pinning fabric and sewing by hand are very challenging. My hands get tired. I bang my knuckles on the edges of my machine when I’m not paying attention.

But I’m not willing to give up. I have a collection of adaptive tools—an ergonomic rotary cutter to relieve pressure on my wrists, bent-nose tweezers for gripping and pulling, a Y-shaped gadget that I can use instead of my fingers to maneuver fabric through my sewing machine, a 25-year-old Viking Husqvarna that has never failed me. I love paging through sewing magazines and handling fabric. I still design outfits in my head, a favorite pass-time since childhood.

So this Sunday, I pulled out the languishing pants pattern, already cut out of khaki cotton gabardine, sat myself down at the dining room table and began marking the pieces with white chalk to prepare them for construction. The first step involved sewing a fly-front zipper. It was really hard, requiring hand basting through some thick layers.

But I did it. Slowly. When I messed up, I removed the stitches with a seam ripper and did it over. And to my great surprise and pleasure, it came out as close to perfect as I could ever expect, even limited by a pair of hands that don’t always cooperate with my head.

I’ll keep plugging along. Who knows? Maybe this pair will actually fit right. And if not, I’ll just make more adjustments and try again, even if it takes me another year to finish.

Evelyn Herwitz blogs weekly about living fully with chronic disease, the inside of baseballs, turtles and frogs, J.S. Bach, the meaning of life and whatever else she happens to be thinking about at livingwithscleroderma.com.